Reblogged from ghdos
And they’re the same ones who turn around to whine & complain that the bad boys aren’t treating them right.
I’m convinced that some women’s favorite past time is complaining about their men. I’m so serious. I hear more conversations about all the negative shit a dude did than about any of the good stuff he did to get her ass in the first place. Even from married women. Dude could be doing everything he’s supposed to do and women will still complain about how he doesn’t put his socks in the hamper or some shit.
Not all. But it’s definitely the majority of the ones I’ve come across.
the above gif slayed me. i’m dying in a corner right now.
nice guys don’t finish last because they’re nice. they finish last because the universe understands what insufferable asswipes they really are. and she hates that shit too.
like we can’t read through “nice guy” bullshit. only thing that needs to be “nice” is tha dick.
well the bad boys are honored and uplifted by everyone even the “nice guys”. you know it’s funny guys get mad at girls for having asshole boyfriends when they have asshole friends. they hang around with niggas that clown them, hit them, don’t respect them, abuse them with their strength, assert domination over them. and then they sit there like, ok, to be a man i guess i just take it. assert my shitty hypermasculinity or agree with the hypermasculinity to not be ostracized. i mean shit, so many dudes big up the “bad boys” for dogging women and doing disgusting things to people in general. so it’s like… what are we expecting?
Look at the fucking story that was put on tumblr tonight! The one about the little girl and her saying the little boy hit her. How many times as little ones have we been told, if he hits you that must mean he likes you? This includes pulling hair, putting his hands on you sexually, and teasing you.
You know what im not even gonna go in on this anymore. Because this shit is bullshit straight up, that nice guy complex is nothing but feeling with asshole.
Y’all kill me with this “Nice Guy” shit like every dude who’s nice is just an undercover asshole trying to fuck but it’s cool. I’ll let it rock.
It is what it is.
So, by this logic, if you’re nice, you’re an asshole. An undercover asshole, but an asshole nonetheless. If you’re an asshole, you’re an asshole.
What do you want from us, women? I mean, seriously. If I treat you like you CONSTANTLY ASK to be treated, all of a sudden, I’m soft; or, as I was told, overly emotional and weak. If I treat you like shit, I’m the biggest asshole this side of the Milky Way. I’m not being nice because I want to fuck you; if I wanted to fuck you, I’d tell you. (Trust me, honest is the best policy.) I’m being nice because THAT’S MY FUCKING NATURE. THAT’S HOW I WAS RAISED; TO TREAT A WOMAN HOW YOU WANT TO BE TREATED.
It’s off putting, dismissive, and it’s bullshit. I’m not complaining about asshole dudes getting women anymore; I left that childish way of thinking behind ages ago. You know why? Because why would I want to be with a woman who doesn’t recognize her own self worth enough to kick an asshole to the curb? That’s just a life of hell for me, personally. I rather treat a woman as she deserves to be treated and she acknowledges and respects it than to complain about the couple of women who are stuck with the assholes and wonder why they can’t get rid of them.
So, let the “good girls” love the “bad boys”. I’m going to be ME. I’m no nice guy, I’m no bad boy, I’m O’mar. You fucking love me because I respect you and give you the chance to love me, not because I’m nice or bad or all that other bullshit.